Ayesha went to USS

As a mom, am so much worry if we were to try something new with Ayesha with us. There's so much questions before going to USS. Will she cry? Will she behave? Will she shout? Will she feels uncomfortable with the crowd? But we just go hoping that she will like that place.

Behave, calm and happy.

And so she love to watch the red and blue ride.
Because people shouting and the ride seems like something  very interesting to her.

We waited for others enjoying the ride.
Because mommy will NEVER try the ride.

Fascinated by the galactica

Even jump around, so happy to see everyone spinning.

So my tips for this time is:

It's ok if your autistic kid cry, shout or whatever tantrum for the first time. Or even the second time. Or the third time, or fourth, maybe fifth or even sixth. Because as soon as she or he can adapt with the new place or routine, she or he will be ok. mommy and daddy need to be patience. Try to treat your kid like a normal person. Don't make them feel like they are king or queen. Don't under estimate them as they actually are very smart kid. Trust me!

Ayesha and her improvement. Capter 1

Remember i blog that Ayesha try to do everything on her own, lately? Ok here is what I mean. Look how sweet she tried to wear Insyirah's slipper. Even though not properly worn by her, but at least she knew that slipper to be worn like this. Ok later peeps.. More updates soon. Insyaallah.

Ayesha featured in The Star

I am not suppose to promise anything. Because seriously, online for me now is to surf the forum in i-class. I stay till late nite only to view the forum in i-class, to print notes, to discuss, to do assignments and those related to my student life. Despite being busy, I enjoy my life so much. I thank Allah Swt for giving me such a  wonderful husband that help me a lot. Like.... A LOT! He is so supportive. I wont be able to find any other husband as good as him if I were be given a chance to choose back which husband I want. 

Ok. Not suppose to write about this a lot. Actually I wanna share the link: 

The Star Online

Serious say that Ayesha improved a lot. Read: A LOT! A LOT! Thank you to everyone in PPIA for giving us the chance to be as one of your family. Without PPIA classes, i don't think Ayesha will be much better. And we smile a lot whenever she tried to do something on her own. As i blog earlier, Ayesha is no more a queen. 

Lately, some of you call me, email me, even sms me regarding autistic kids. Of yours to be precise. Here I don't have much knowledge but as hard as i can, i will share with you peeps what i have here. Every knowledge, every experience. Don't be shy of having this special kids. Or anak syurga. You should be proud of them. Bring them out to be with the society. For those who need help, motivation or whatever u just name it. Reach me via my mail. text me, or tweet me @icaziesyira

I shall return.

Of being busy with hectic schedule. As a working mom, a student. I left my blog. No update for so long. But I'm here back to share Ayesha's improvement after 6 months she enter Pusat Pemulihan Intervensi Awal. I'm so happy that Ayesha is now different from last time I blog about her before. Later peeps, will update as soon as I can. 

Ayesha at PPIA

Done with my final exam peeps. And here I am to update something about Ayesha. You know what? It's a bit tough actually to be a mom to a special kid. But you can't slip and need to be tough. like.. forever! That's why i used to call myself a superwoman. Even though I'm not, but with that title I will try as hard as I can, to be a superwoman. a supermom and a super wife. Insyaallah..

Ok let's talk about Ayesha. Ayesha now needs to attend 2 hour class on Tuesday and Friday, 9.45-11.45am. As working mom, i spend  most of my time with Ayesha only on weekend. So Weekdays, we have done nothing much with her. Tapi bila masuk PPIA, memang banyak aktiviti untuk Ayesha kat sana even though kelas tu cuma untuk 2 jam. And the teachers semua adalah sangat strict and I love it. 

So am here to share some experiences, thoughts and techniques untuk panduan mereka yang juga punya anak autisme. Yang paling penting, treat them as normal people. And according to Teacher Sara, autistic children is like a King! And I'm strongly agree with what she said. So from now on, you're no more queen Ayesha! You have to do everything on your own!

Early stage ni, macam sesi perkenalan juga. Agak susah juga untuk cope sebab autistic kid ni dia suka dengan benda yang rutin. Bila kita cuba tukar rutin kehidupan dia, dia akan rasa tak selesa, marah and tantrum. Ayesha ni dia marah tau. Bila nampak je muka teacher Sara, makin kuat dia menangis. Tersedu-sedu dia menangis macam kena rotan. Teacher Sara suddenly kata please dont feel bad. Hey! I'm ok! 

Semua bahan yang Teacher Sara gunakan untuk Ayesha adalah benda yang kita ada kat rumah. Cuma kena lebih creative untuk create new thing untuk anak autisme kita. Early stage ni Ayesha banyak buat sorting. Shape sorting, colours sorting.

See? everything you have at home kan? guna sepit baju pun boleh. Bab sorting ni Ayesha dah master. Cuma kelemahan Ayesha, dia tak suka focus. So nak cepat, dia terus je masuk dalam bakul tanpa nengok ape shape n ape warna. So i have to shout focus! and tarik kepala dia kasi letak dalam bakul. haha

Threading ni pun Ayesha dah master. Actually semua barang-barang ni dipinjamkan oleh PPIA and dia akan tukar each week. This is called homework where we have to use this at home everyday. Lagi kerap, lagi baik. For moms out there yang masih duduk diam, tak buat apa, layan anak macam raja, Come! Email me and i'll guide you. And share whatever experience i have.

More to share later peeps.